DROP IT !!

We do not know what is the purpose of our lives . Why are we here ? , why are we doing the things assigned to us ? , is there life after death ? , is there a major controlling force behind every activity ?. Such mind bogling questions have been of keen interest to mankind since centuries . They have tried to explain the answers to these in every possible way ranging from historical accounting to logical reasoning , applied various developed theories and deducted new possible theories from it .There also have been a lot of debate regarding such topics . Some say there is a purpose to our lives and i.e. we are suffering the punishment for our misdeeds and sins which we committed in some ideal place ( eg:- heaven ) , so we are sent to earth to learn a lesson. On the contrary some say , there is no such ideal place but we are here because some few million molecules combined with some [1/(2^some billion) ] probability and the fittest of the organisms survive and the weaker goes for extinction. Since the world is a large place from our perspective , such beliefs lead to distinction between various cultures and religion. The individual group becomes so adamant about it that it starts imposing its beliefs on rest leading to argument , debates and what not . This is not something relevant of stone age but is a continous process which has been seen in variuos forms .
From an individual point of view , we meet people with distinct mind sets , some complimentary , some supplementary and find that they have their own beliefs and viewpoint about how things go around here . Some try to accept it but some try to force it on others or treat them as some lunatic . Some debate over it for hours and hours , fight for their belief giving examples from their own life .
I also sometimes take part in such debates (or should I say used to?) , I couldnt find anything from them except unrest and anxiety even if I win the debate . Whenever I debate over such issues I keep in mind not to use the weakness of the opponent , I hate it ( my personal quality , dont want to make any enemies or convert the few friends to enemies ) , I dont want to hit the person again and again on the green and give that person a tough time , I rather try to convince why I believe like this and when that person goes on and on without any sign of termination , I just DROP IT !

Reincarnation

As it is said -" Time and tide waits for none " - so true . While starting this blog my aim was to keep up with the daily happennings of my life but now it will serve exactly the opposite purpose i.e to forget the past happenings and move on . Time has changed me in various ways - my thinking , my character , my viewpoint - in some cases they have completely reversed . I realised how important it is to adjust to the society and its principles which I earlier thought can be ignored easily . I faced the brutality of speaking only truth , suffered the loss of friends which took a lot of time to recover (may be still recovering) , saw the metamorphosis in character of some people to such an extent that it became tough to handle them. Well this is not only the case with me , everyone faces this at this age . There are some who adjust quickly to this and some who lag behind and keep on thinking -" why ?". I certainly belong to the second group and I hate it , I wish I would have adjusted .
Well the adaptability depends on the work you are involved in and if you hate it from the core of your heart , it becomes extremely difficult .
So I am here again, back to writing , may be this acts as a filter to my sorrows and mishappenings in life .