Saturday, January 2, 2010

Before any updates, one thing, Ajeytaa came to know about the blog, x-(. But it's fine. I hope it doesn't effects my writing.One of the aim of writing my blog is to send away a message to someone or about something and I hope to fulfill it. Well I have been lazy and hence writing the blog after a longer duration than usual.


1. Went to Hyderabad for Ascend Program for two days. Well to sum up the experience, it was great. We had three flights taking us to the destination. The flight in which we went, we played Dumb-Charades, Holly/Bolly. Basically the trip was more like a train trip where we were standing most of the time and the air hostesses were a bit pissed off !! :P. We stayed in a 5 star hotel (Novotel)...obviously the rooms were awesome, the food was not :(, the program was just a formality. I met my bodomama and bodomimi (bade mamaji and mamiji) and had dinner with them. All of our batch even went to the hyderabad deloitte office, after which we went to a sports karaoke bar where we danced and sang and enjoyed a lot. We even played Mafia (I played for the first time). Well everyone was there from my friends except Tanvi who just missed out due to personal reasons. :( .

2. Finally the CAT fever is gone for a while (untill GD and PI starts) as everyone is done with them.

3. Haven't gone to gym for a while because I caught cold and fever which caused me to work from home for two days.I think I gained a little weight :P. Hoping to start Gym again soon.

4. Well I think I need to change my way of showing that I care for my friends. It was a normal day at office. We all go for breakfast in the canteen. All here means - Me, Rishabh , Divy, Tanvi and Ajeytaa. Now Divyansh has the habit of playing pranks on people especially Ajeytaa, so he took the battery out of her mobile and kept it with himself ( the prank he was wanting to play for so long).So later she found out about it and so in the process of finding the culprit attacked me. Now you will encounter the most confusing prank of all time. So here it goes.., She took my mouse and kept it in her drawer. Seeing this - I took divyansh's mouse and kept it with myself. Then vishesh (another colleague) and Ajeytaa took my iTouch (dont know where it was kept)(after this ajeytaa went for lunch),I took vishesh's bose's headphones and he took my laptop charger, and in reply I took Ajeytaa's mouse and laptop charger. Then I stole ajeytaa's drawer's key in front of her eyes and she didn't realized that time.Then I came back to ajeytaa's desk and found my mouse and ipod in her drawer. After that in order to teach divyansh a lesson since he was the culprit, I took his headphones and kept it in Ajeytaa's drawer and kept Ajeytaa's phone charger in divyansh's place. I returned vishesh everything since i got my iTouch. So then I got back my things - mouse, laptop charger, iTouch. I then gave Ajeytaa's drawer keys to vishesh who sits near her. He then kept in somewhere. Then Ajeytaa came back and found everything here and there. She came to me and started snatching my mouse, laptop and all. I told her - You took my mouse, and in the process she finally threw the mouse and went away saying - "this is not even funny". Later I found out the mouse was not working (I got it changed). So Ajeytaa stopped talking to us ( me, divy and rishabh). She didn't talk in bus (sat at a different place), during breakfast and everything. Well due to my previous experiences, I adjusted quickly to the situation but I guess divyansh didn't and fought hard to make everything normal. I thought of sending a mail to her (even drafted one) but later decided not to. The things became very worse, as in we almost missed bus back home one day when the bus suddenly changed and we were waiting somewhere else. It felt bad, very bad, extremely bad but I managed. I felt as if my first impression about her came true. I remember her saying once - "nothing affects me that much", so assuming that I said to myself - " well nothing will effect her now, she has other friends, other group to hang out with and so let her enjoy, we were just another small part which stopped existing and so why should I care at all now (I felt sorry for divyansh, he was new I guess but no problem he will also learn now), better to let the heartless, feel-less Ajeytaa go from our lives , although I don't treat life like a market where we give and then take but at that point I became corporate in true terms" .I remember writing a point about her in my previous post, I realize the importance of making note of things now since this can surely teach me yet another lesson and keep me cautious about what not to in future and what not to expect from someone or something. In protest I blocked her from gmail and facebook. Also I remained invisible in my communicator for two-three days. Well whenever something like this happens my mind diverts towards music and it's magic and thanks to my I-pod and Guitar for this. I suddenly felt powerful and enlightened. That's when I created something.

5. Well although ajeytaa was not there, I, rishabh and divy went for the movie - "paa" which was quite enjoyable. We even got us clicked in butt-chairs of 3-idiots which were kept in the multiplex :P.

6.Finally I got my oracle PLSQL reimbursement back and also got the money refunded for the DY Patil match which didn't happened. I was happy to get some random money back :P, although it was my money only which I got back :P.

7. Well regarding the case with Ajeytaa, Rishabh one day talked to her and made her understand something which I don't know about. So suddenly one day I got a call in office from divyansh saying - "Avatar dekhega 3-D me?" and I replied where, who all and when. Tht day I stayed back in office till 8:30 since I had a call. So he said - Vashi, 10:15 and we four including Ajeytaa . I said ok although wondering what happened suddenly. Well I reached vashi, entered McD and while eating, they all came in. I talked to divy and rishabh but not ajeytaa, she broke the silence by saying sorry, I looked her with no expectations at all (as if I dont even know her and she doesnt affects me may be due to the practice I went through the previous two weeks) and said - Why r u saying sorry, u should not. And then we went to many places, here and there, more outings and all but still those practice sessions were dominating over all these.
Then one day we all went to Tanvi's place for night out, there we also went to Hard rock cafe and gateway of india. I guess this was the day when I flushed my memory and accepted ajeytaa back in my life. I was finally feeling comfortable again. So things were back to normal but I decided I will restrict few things like - commenting on some things, hiting her :P, expecting anything in return from her etc. By this way, everything would be perfect and will cause no harm. I decided to do this for Janani and Tanvi too. But I dont think I require it for tanvi. Janani said once in chat that - I might seem calm and all but one day you all will realize the actual me and then thank me for my support and help. Well lets see if that day comes soon :P. So now, I am back to zero expectations state and as usual happy :).

8. The new year day - everyone has gone somewhere, rishabh to aurangabad with his parents, Ajeytaa to delhi.Also I was not well for two days before new year. Our office declared 31st also as a holiday, so I, divy and tanvi decided to watch 3 idiots on 31st morning. Then out of nowhere janani suddenly said that she is bored and wants to go to some place like lonavla or khandala, divy supported her but I made them believe it would not be possible since movie gets over at 2:15 and if we want to get back by evening, we cant go very far. So we decided that we would go towards pune and keep going till we feel we should come back. And so on 31st, tanvi came in to watch the movie, we watched it. Tanvi was looking a bit lost, dont know why, may be because Rishabh wasnt there :P. After that janani came in and we roamed around kharghar a bit and then finally went towards pune, there we stopped at a place and found a small haunted house type place, we took pics and even videos :P and finally returned, then we went to Palm beach drive and stopped at the lake. Then I dropped divyansh to his house and janani to the station and went back home. Well I remember my 12:00 am was on facebook playing cricket :).

9. Mood Indigo - I, ajeytaa, vandita, deepak, decided to go for mood indigo. So we went to the night when shankar-ehsaan-loy performed. Now here I want to stress on a few points and talk about this Janani. Well after asking janani and ajeytaa and tanvi , I told apoorv to get 3 passes for me which he did. I told all of them that I have got the passes and hence we will go. Tanvi later on informed she cant come because she was busy in her project, so I said no probs. I then asked janani again - r u coming since vandita was also asking for a pass and she said she will tell me. So I told vandita that lets see if it is possible.Ajeytaa and janani were in a call, so I waited, I waited for one and half hours from 5:30 to 7:00, to find out from Ajeytaa that janani is not coming, I said ok and was angry for the Nth time. By this time, deepak got extra pass for vandita and so we were good to go. We went there, we danced ,we enjoyed a lot. Then went back to eat at some place and finally stayed back at Ojas's place for the night out where I met some old friend of mine. Next day I came back home. But wait why was I angry and that also for the Nth time. Well this girl Janani has no idea of communication, she is so very much obsessed with herself that she gets lost. I don't know what is the problem with her. I asked her many times to confirm whether she is in or not, but no she didn't follow up. She does that all the time, during music practices I ask her what time she is free and when I call her during that time she says she forgot to mention that she had some work or that work. I am completely fed up with this behaviour. And when I point her out that you should not do this - she says I am rude , arrogant , heartless. I don't get it. Well the solution - same policy as Ajeytaa , zero expectations. I think it already started working.

Well for now, I will only post this much. I have other things too but don't wanna write now, so will add later on. Also I don't want the above to remain "unposted".
The main headlines of the continuing post would be:

- Video Chat with a friend in US :).

- Meeting a friend after 8 months although lives next building.

- Investment Declarations and all

- IM Funday

- Sherlock holmes, pool and "intense discussion"

- Volleyball SPOC and Sports meet

- My house - new furnitures and all

- Cycle to sister

- Letter from someone (frustating)

- Scavenger hunt team (Scooby dooby don't)

2 comments:

Mahak.... said...

Zero Expectation again :P

OMG you will never change Soham ,stop absorbing start living :)

"choti si zindagii hai kyu hona gussa"

Soham Chakraborty said...

arey ab ghussa nahi hu :P... zero expectations to humesha se hi tha :P.. bachpan se..